“Come, come, whoever you are. Wanderer, worshiper, lover of leaving. It doesn't matter. Ours is not a caravan of despair. come, even if you have broken your vows a thousand times. Come, yet again , come , come.” Rumi

Thursday, May 10, 2018

دردشة مع مسلمة...أحمَدِيَة

أسكن "نورت بوتوماك" أو "شمال بوتوماك", مدينة تجاور العاصمة واشنطن دي-سي و تتميز عن باقي مدن ولاية ماريلاند بمساحاتها الخضراﺀ الشاسعة و فضول حيواناتها البرية . حيوانات أضحت أليفة بعدما اعتادت استيطان بني البشر للأراضي التي كانت – في الماضي القريب- غابات تضفي عليها أشجارها الشامخة هيبة و سحرا فريدين.
فكم مرة أيقظني صوت أيْلٍ يأكل الورود و الطماطم التي أنهك قواي زرعُها, و كم مرة اندهشت لسماع أنين
سنجاب وقع ضحية ثعلب يترقب الفريسة تلو الاخرى في حديقة بيتي الخلفية!
ما يميز"نورت بوتوماك" أيضا هو كونها "زرقاﺀ" أي أن أغلب ساكنتها تٌصوت لمرشحي الحزب الديمقراطي مما يدل على تنوع الجاليات التي جعلت من هذه المدينة المحطة النهائية لرحلتها الى بلاد العم سام.
و لا أبالغ ان قلت أنني قد ألمح, في اليوم الواحد, كل الأجناس بل وحتى مظاهر كل الديانات التي أعرفها و الأخرى التي أجهل كل شئ عن أركانها و فرائضها !
لم يكن إذاً غريبا أن أراها تتجول في أروقة المتجر الدي اعتدتُ ارتياده. سيدة في الأربعينيات من عمرها, أو هكذا بدت لي. طريقة وضعها لغطاء رأسها أوحت لي أنها قد تكون من مصر, فبادرتها بالسؤال بعد السلام: "هل تم الاعلان عن تاريخ يوم العيد؟" أخبرتني بابتسامة أن "جماعتها" ستفطر اليوم التالي ثم سألتني ان كنت ايرانية شيعية فقلت إنني مغربية و مسلمة. مدت يدها لتصافحني و قالت "أنا شاهينا, أحْمَدِيـَّة من أصول بنغلاديشية". بدا لي أنها كانت تتوقع ردة فعل معينة مني, غير أنني اكتفيت بقول "أوو واو!", و هي بصراحة عبارة اعتدت تكرارها كلما أردت التظاهر بأنني أفهم ما يقوله المتحدث أمامي بيد أنه لم تكن لي حينها أدنى دراية عمّا يعنيه كونها أحْمَدِيـَّة!
تتالت اللقاءات بيننا و أبهرتني شاهينا, الحاصلة على ماجستير في علوم البيولوجيا, بثقافتها الواسعة و نقاشاتها العميقة. لمّا سألتها -في إطار حديثنا عن مذهبها- إن كانت تصلي خمس صلاوات في اليوم, ابتسمت و أجابت" أنا مسلمة, و أمارس كل شعائر الإسلام!"
كنت حينها قد قرأت بعض المقالات حول الأحمدية فأخبرت شاهينا أنني لا أستوعب إصرارهم على تأكيد انتمائهم للإسلام مع العلم أن نبيهم هو ميرزا غلام أحمد!
استنكرت شاهينا كلامي و قالت "بل نبينا و خاتم النبيين هو محمد صلى الله عليه و سلم". ثم واصلت حديثها موضحة  أن الأحمدية يعتبرون ميرزا غلام أحمد المهدي المنتظر و المسيح الموعود, و أنه سعى إلى إعادة إحياء كلمة الحق و نشر الإسلام.
الاختلاف أصله إيمان الأحمدية بأن عيسى عليه السلام لم يمت على الصليب بل هاجر إلى الهند و عاش بمدينة سريناغار تحت اسم" يوز أساف" إلى أن توفاه الله. أضف إلى دلك كونهم يعتبرون أن المسيح الموعود هو نفسه المهدي المنتظر و أن خليفة الأحمدية الأول ميرزا هو كليهما.  
هي إذن مدرسة فكرية تؤكد تشَبُتَها بأصول الإسلام كما تؤكد حقها في تأويلات و اجتهادات خاصة شأنها في دلك شأن المدارس الفكرية الأخرى التي يزخر بها العالم الإسلامي.
و مع دلك, يتعرض الأحمدية إلى أبشع أنواع الاقصاء و العنف من قبل تيارات إسلامية أعطت نفسها حق محاكمة مسلمين و تكفيرهم بل و أحيانا كثيرة إهدار دمهم!
لا يُسمح للأحمدي بأن يسمي دار عبادته مسجدا كما يُمنع من الذهاب إلى الحج إدا أعلن مذهبه!
سألت صديقتي الأحمدية إن كانوا يلجؤون إلى التَّقِيًّة لتفادي المشاكل فقالت إنه لا وجود لهده الكلمة في قاموسهم بل إنهم يصرون على نشر مذهبهم بكل الطرق السلمية المتاحة لهم.
"نؤمن بقوة العلم و ندرك تمام الإدراك أن الجهاد يجب أن يكون بالقلم. لا نفرض توجهنا على أحد. نعم, يمكن اعتبارنا حركة تبشيرية و لكن لا ننسى أبدا أنه لا إكراه في الدين."
انقطعت أخبار صديقتي لمدة ثم التقينا ثانية عن طريق الفايسبوك. قرأت على صفحتها خبر مقتل أشخاص تم تعذيبهم و تدمير مسجدهم بباكستان  لكونهم أحمدية. حزنت صديقتي و حزنْتُ معها. بدا لي و كأن العالم الإسلامي يتفنن في إيجاد تبريرات لاستباحة الدماء: فالسني يكفر الشيعي و الشيعي يلعن السني, الإباظي يَعتبر مَن خالفه كافرا و الأصولي يحكم على باقي الفرق الإسلامية بالشرك!
التقيت صديقتي و واسيتها, تحدثنا عن ضرورة احترام الاختلاف. سألتها "مالذي تودين إيصاله للناس؟" أجابت " أقول للجميع أنه لا أحد مجبر على الانضمام إلينا, تجاهلونا إن أحببتم و لكن, رجاء, دعونا نعيش بسلام."
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ألقاكم قريبا, إن شاء الله! 


Sunday, March 12, 2017

What if we start calling KKK members "Christianitists" ?

Some christianitists posted this hate message in Texas state university...
“White man, are you sick and tired of the Jews destroying your country through mass immigration and degeneracy.”
Outrageous!
What? Why do I call them christianitists ? Well I thought we could simply add an "ist" to the name of a religion when we mean those who misuse it..Right?
Well.. White supremacists always claimed their Christian identity right?
So why doesn't feel right to me? Shouldn't I -instead- call them racists regardless of their religion? Shouldn't I just condemn their act without associating it with a specific religion?
How would it sound to the "normal" and "moderate" Christian who lives a normal life: goes to work, loves his family, takes them to movies, have pancakes Sunday morning...Wouldn't s/he feels pressured to justify himself whenever he hears the name of his religion associated with racist coward criminals?
The answer is obvious.. I can tell you about it. Feeling the need to justify your belief..the pressure to condemn each and every crazy act commited by crazy lunatics who claim they talk in the name of God..And many times I feel the urge to say:WELL if Islam means to kill nonMuslims WHY AM I NOT KILLING EVERY NON MUSLIM I MEET?don't they promise heavan to those who kill and get killed in the name of God..and who knows, I may even develop a taste for the "72 houris " supposedly waiting for the so called martyrs..
I do practice Islam though, I pray 5 times a day, I fast, I don't drink alcohol and I don't eat pork, I even wear a scarf -Symbol of terrorism-for many..
How is it that when Muslims had enough political and logistical powers which would have allowed them to kill many non Muslims or force them to convert ; they instead gave us Andalusia where the three religions coexisted ?
How is it that nonMuslim tourists can go to Muslim countries and live back to their countries ALIVE and with good memories?
If ISIS and Co represent Islam why do they kill Muslims?
Why are their members condemned and put in jail in every Muslim coutries?
These groups are like bad bacterias ..They grow when there is a"problem". ISIS and Co thrive in no man's lands where there is war/poverty/disasters/complete absence of the rule of law.. and no "organized" army to face them.
But let me go to my first question and ask it differently.
How did we -Muslim and culturally Muslim- journalists trapped ourselves and started using the word "Islamist" to call every lunatic who justified his craziness with an out of context Quran verse or a weird hadith? Why did we offer them what they wanted in a golden plate by approving of their false claim of being representatives of Islam?
Why do we call these mercenaries Jihadists while we know what they do is against Jihad as taught by the prophet "the spiritual struggle within oneself to fight against sin"?
So let me say it again :
ISIS IS NOT A MUSLIM COUNTRY, IT IS NOT A MUSLIM ASSOCIATION; IT IS NOT A POLITICAL PARTY, IT IS A BUNCH OF WELL FUNDED AND HEAVILY ARMED PERVERT CRAZY CRIMINALS THIRSTY FOR BLOOD AND POWER.
AND IF A MEMBER OR A SYMPATHISER OF ISIS AND ALIKES IS ARRESTED IN MUSLIM COUNTRIES S/HE'S IMMEDIATELY JAILED.

Saturday, January 10, 2015

Islamic extremism..let's tackle the causes of the virus, not the symptoms..

I understand that when it comes to Muslims, media is bias.
I understand that all these "terrorists" that flourish like mushrooms are usually sick and deranged young men and women.
I understand that many secret services may take advantage of these young lunatics and easily "convince" them to plot against their host/birth country in the name of Islam.
I understand that the vast majority of the terrorists' victims are actually Muslim people.
I understand that Islam has nothing to do with what these killers claim.
BUT..
Let's not forget that there is indeed an interpretation of Islam that radicalizes young people and transforms them into killers..
hundreds of young men and women from the north of Morocco are being recruited to join Daesh. They believe they're being good Muslims. 
We can't keep saying "well they are not Muslims, they don't represent Islam"..Remember that that's what we do every time "a terrorist act"happens. We start focusing on how unfair the media is to Muslims, on how the same thing happens daily in Iraq, Syria, Palestine while the media doesn't really care..
And we forget that the extremists are taking advantage of our approach. 
I think that we should change our approach. 
Our audience should be our own compatriots or coreligionists.
We have to make them understand that we refuse the radical interpretation of Islam. Our concern should not be what the western media think but how to immune our young men and women from the virus of extremism.
We should not wait for terrorist acts to happen for us to start dissociating ourselves from these extremists, as if all we care about is the non Muslims 'opinion of Islam..
we should instead spend every day that God makes to find ways and convince/force the elected politicians in the Islamic countries to do their job and start reforming the education system as a first and crucial step to challenge the obscurantism...

But that's just my opinion..

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Remain Muslim or..Die?


11:28
Sahih International
He said, "O my people have you considered: if I should be upon clear evidence from my Lord while He has given me mercy from Himself but it has been made unapparent to you, should we force it upon you while you are averse to it?

"The apostasy law" is based on a single Hadith that was never endorsed by all Muslim clerics.
Killing a Muslim who decides to leave Islam is in discordance with the Muslim sacred book. Islam clearly grants one's right to decide for her/his own belief. Quran indeed says
"And say: "The truth [has now come] from your Sustainer: let, then, him who wills, believe in it, and let him who wills, reject " al kahf (The cave):verse 29
Muslim Scholars explain the non relevancy of the apostasy law:
Dr.Tareq Mohammed Al-Suwaidan, Kuwaiti leader of the Kuwaiti Muslim Brotherhood : The law of apostasy is political and has nothing to do with the religion of Islam."
Dr.Saadeddin Al-Hilali, a professor of Islamic jurisprudence at Al-Azhar University : The concept of killing an apostate is indeed widespread among some Muslim communities but it is not the norm.
Dr.Adnan Ibrahim, president 
of the Intercultural Dialog Association in Vienna, Austria and a Muslim thinker and speaker: The apostasy law is not mentioned in the Muslim sacred book.

Friday, November 8, 2013

Find the divine around you, in you....


I felt so serene while watching this video. The apparent sincerity in the host's voice is so soothing and of course the message he conveys is very inspiring. While I was watching, I wondered why isn't this message clear and present in the minds of many Muslims I know. Why didn't most of us grasp this same message while reading our holy book Qur'an. Why didn't we do our best to showcase this other yet forgotten aspect of our holy book: beautiful verses inciting believers to seek for knowledge, to learn from the beauty of nature, to be present and do not worry about what went or what is yet t o come. Why do we only see Qur'an as a book of DO and Do not, heaven and hell? while it is a beautiful inspiring piece of wisdom and art.
I do not want to go through any socio-political explanation here..All I want to say is that Qur'an is worth reading and rereading. It calls for love of nature, love of life, love of humans, love of knowledge, love of God, love...simply love.
But then again, some hearts do indeed need to find the secret code of their locks, to unchain and appreciate the beauty of the words of God.      
"أَفَلا يَتَدَبَّرُونَ الْقُرْآنَ أَمْ عَلَى قُلُوبٍ أَقْفَالُهَا"

"Then do they not reflect upon the Qur'an, or are there locks upon [their] hearts?"

Surat Muĥammad :24

                                       

Here, some verses that hopefully can help you decide to give yourself another chance, and explore the Qur'an with wondering eyes, without prejudgment.
 EXPLORING AND WONDERING:
Then do they not look at the camels - how they are created? And at the sky - how it is raised?And at the mountains - how they are erected?

Surat Al-Ghāshiyah (The Overwhelming) :17. 18. 19


 BEING PRESENT AND ALWAYS HAVE HOPE:
No disaster strikes upon the earth or among yourselves except that it is in a register before We bring it into being - indeed that, for Allah , is easy -
In order that you not despair over what has eluded you and not exult [in pride] over what He has given you. And Allah does not like everyone self-deluded and boastful -

Surat Al-Ĥadīd (The Iron) : 22. 23


 ONLY GOD IS TO JUDGE
So remind
 you are only a reminder.
You are not over them a controller.

Surat Al-Ghāshiyah (The Overwhelming) : 21. 22



GOD IS CLOSER TO US THAN WHAT WE THINK

And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him, and We are closer to him than [his] jugular vein

Surat Qāf (The Letter "Qaf") : 16


And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me - indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided.

Surat Al-Baqarah (The Cow) : 186



Tuesday, October 15, 2013

And We will surely test you ...

"The universe is made up of experiences that are designed to burn out your attachment, your clinging, to pleasure, to pain, to fear to all of it. And as long as there is a place where you’re vulnerable, the universe will find a way to confront you with it."
RAM DASSIt reminds me of this verse:


"And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient, Who, when disaster strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to Allah , and indeed to Him we will return."Those are the ones upon whom are blessings from their Lord and mercy. And it is those who are the [rightly] guided."
AlBaqarah: 155/156/157

وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ بِشَيْءٍ مِنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوعِ وَنَقْصٍ مِنَ الْأَمْوَالِ وَالْأَنْفُسِ وَالثَّمَرَاتِ وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ * الَّذِينَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ أُولَئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِنْ رَبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌ وَأُولَئِكَ هُمُ الْمُهْتَدُونَ) (البقرة: 155/ 156 /157)

Saturday, October 5, 2013

Psychological impact of Qur'an...on me!

Qur'an started meaning more than just verses read in funerals when I turned 20. I started feeling its psychological effect on me. Since then, my religious journey transformed into a spiritual and richer one.. Of course, there were ups and downs, nevertheless, Qur'an never ceased to empower me. 
This particular verse has a tremendous effect on me, it always gives me hope:)

In the name of God , the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful.
By the morning brightness, And [by] the night when it covers with darkness, Your Lord has not taken leave of you, or has He detested [you].And the Hereafter is better for you than the first [life].And your Lord is going to give you, and you will be satisfied.Did He not find you an orphan and give [you] refuge?And He found you lost and guided [you],And He found you poor and made [you] self-sufficient.So as for the orphan, do not oppress [him].And as for the petitioner, do not repel [him].But as for the favor of your Lord, report [it].